So I am going to think out loud here for a bit. I consider myself a spiritual person. I believe in a higher power and often ask (pray, however you want to look at that) to the angels and that higher power. I am working on having positive focus as often as I can in my life. Being an optimistic person, you would think this is pretty natural and easy, but I have struggled with limiting beliefs that have made it difficult at times. I am working on eliminating these limiting beliefs from my life and being more open to possibilities, wonder, delight and enlightenment.
Most of us have heard things like "money doesn't grow on trees" and "good girls don't do things like that" or a variety of other things like that. Shame and limiting beliefs just seems to be a normal part of society and I gotta say, what a load of crap!
Undoing years of conditioning is a challenge, but I am taking it on. I want to employ beliefs like "you can do anything you desire and set your mind to" and release the shame and limiting beliefs that have had a hold over my enjoyment. "Enough" I say!! It has taken a lot of growth to get to where I currently am, and I am not stopping here folks. This is just the beginning.
So now I continue forward...
With harm to none...
Reaching for goals of "_________" or more......
Blessing all.....
Trusting my guidance........
Expecting greatness.........
Spreading the love and knowledge that I have gained and always striving for more.............
Will you join me on this wonderous journey?
About Me
- Passion Pair
- I would like to welcome you to this blog and let you know a bit about me. My name is Christina and I am not a therapist or other "expert" on sex and relationships. I am simply a woman who loves life, love, intimacy, romance and sex. I believe that life is all about never-ending learning and exploration. I am a wife and mother who has discovered through her experiences, a crystal clear understanding of what is truly important and maybe more importantly, what is not. I have been married since 1994 and have children ranging from 7 years old to 21 years old. I have found ways to maintain a happy marriage and passionate sex life with my husband, all while raising a family, managing finances and daily stresses and even overcoming more than one life threatening situation. I have often been the "go to" person for friends, who expressed admiration for my relationship with my partner and family and seek the same for their lives. One of my best friends, Bonnie, often collaborates with me on topics. Together we would like to invite you to join us on a journey to find a place for passion in all aspects of life.
Monday, February 11, 2013
Wednesday, January 23, 2013
Intimate Avenue
Most of the scenes in movies and books portray intimate moments that are smooth, exciting and free of "oops." As we all know, life tends to have a few bumps in the road along the way. The same tends to be the case in our "real life" intimate encounters.
Whether it is a bed that decides to fall apart in the heat of the moment or a misplaced elbow, things tend to happen that are outside the realm of perfection. I think that each of us has experienced a little blunder or two as we have grown in our experiences.
The key at times like this is to keep your mood light. Remember to laugh at these little blunders. Perfection is not necessary at all times. Some of the greatest things have come from fumbling around and finding excellence by accident.
Whether it is a bed that decides to fall apart in the heat of the moment or a misplaced elbow, things tend to happen that are outside the realm of perfection. I think that each of us has experienced a little blunder or two as we have grown in our experiences.
The key at times like this is to keep your mood light. Remember to laugh at these little blunders. Perfection is not necessary at all times. Some of the greatest things have come from fumbling around and finding excellence by accident.
Saturday, January 12, 2013
New Year Goals
A lot of people do New Year's Resolutions, some are kept and some are not. Instead of doing resolutions I challenge you to set goals instead. If you don't meet a goal, you just keep working toward it, rather than having possible negativity with failing to follow through with a resolution.
Since my blog is about passion, I recommend setting goals in that area. Passion in our relationships for example might have the goal of each week (each month if you are more comfortable with that) to explore a new thing. This could be incorporating a new position or new toy into your intimate moments. Maybe you want to focus on making more time for bonding as a couple. Perhaps you want to do something nice for your partner. This could be something like leaving a small note for them, giving a massage. Maybe giving them the opportunity to have some time away from the hustle and bustle of daily responsibility to take a walk, hang with the girls or guys, or get a spa treatment.
Another possible goal could involve working on your own growth. Have you ever meditated? Maybe this year would be a good time to give it a go. Are you wanting to improve your physical condition? Small changes can have a big impact. Instead of walking slumped and looking down, stand up and swing your arms. Dance a little bit. Dancing can have a big impact on your mood as well as a fun way to burn a few calories. Ladies, did you know that dancing can engage your feminine energy? Work, lists, running a household and most jobs that we perform are all masculine energy. It is a good thing to keep these energies in balance. Engaging the feminine energy will also make it easier to find your sexy.
These are just a couple of ideas and there is limitless possibilities. What are your goals for the year?
Since my blog is about passion, I recommend setting goals in that area. Passion in our relationships for example might have the goal of each week (each month if you are more comfortable with that) to explore a new thing. This could be incorporating a new position or new toy into your intimate moments. Maybe you want to focus on making more time for bonding as a couple. Perhaps you want to do something nice for your partner. This could be something like leaving a small note for them, giving a massage. Maybe giving them the opportunity to have some time away from the hustle and bustle of daily responsibility to take a walk, hang with the girls or guys, or get a spa treatment.
Another possible goal could involve working on your own growth. Have you ever meditated? Maybe this year would be a good time to give it a go. Are you wanting to improve your physical condition? Small changes can have a big impact. Instead of walking slumped and looking down, stand up and swing your arms. Dance a little bit. Dancing can have a big impact on your mood as well as a fun way to burn a few calories. Ladies, did you know that dancing can engage your feminine energy? Work, lists, running a household and most jobs that we perform are all masculine energy. It is a good thing to keep these energies in balance. Engaging the feminine energy will also make it easier to find your sexy.
These are just a couple of ideas and there is limitless possibilities. What are your goals for the year?
Sunday, December 30, 2012
Incentive to share
Is your partner a bit hesitant to share with you, be it fantasies or other information about intimacy? Here is an idea to help to open them up.
Offer to remove on item of clothing for each fantasy. This could also be used for coaxing information about different hot spots, techniques, or special requests.
Thanks Cass!
Offer to remove on item of clothing for each fantasy. This could also be used for coaxing information about different hot spots, techniques, or special requests.
Thanks Cass!
Thursday, December 27, 2012
Holiday Season
I hope everyone is having a wonderful holiday season!
We are having a Pleasure Party on New Years Eve at Galloway's Irish Pub on CY Ave. in Casper, WY. I hope we have a good turn out for this party. Sable and Melba Cuzins, the authors of the Wyoming Kama Sutra books, will be co-hosting this party with me. Every time the two of them get together, there is bound to be a lot of laughs and fun. Combine the three of us and my husband, it is sure to be a hoot.
Any of the guys who would like a man's opinion or assistance, Brent would be glad to be of assistance.
Do you have New Year's resolutions in mind yet? Is your relationship in need of a little spice? We have many ideas that we will be sharing with you throughout 2013. Stay tuned for the ideas that we will be sharing. If you have ideas that you would like to share, or would like more information on a specific topic we have covered or topic that you would like us to cover, please feel free to email aplaceforpassion@gmail.com.
Many thanks for all the followers of this blog, the online store (aplaceforpassion.com) and our facebook page. Best wishes for us all!
We are having a Pleasure Party on New Years Eve at Galloway's Irish Pub on CY Ave. in Casper, WY. I hope we have a good turn out for this party. Sable and Melba Cuzins, the authors of the Wyoming Kama Sutra books, will be co-hosting this party with me. Every time the two of them get together, there is bound to be a lot of laughs and fun. Combine the three of us and my husband, it is sure to be a hoot.
Any of the guys who would like a man's opinion or assistance, Brent would be glad to be of assistance.
Do you have New Year's resolutions in mind yet? Is your relationship in need of a little spice? We have many ideas that we will be sharing with you throughout 2013. Stay tuned for the ideas that we will be sharing. If you have ideas that you would like to share, or would like more information on a specific topic we have covered or topic that you would like us to cover, please feel free to email aplaceforpassion@gmail.com.
Many thanks for all the followers of this blog, the online store (aplaceforpassion.com) and our facebook page. Best wishes for us all!
Tuesday, December 4, 2012
fun toy (for couples too)
I would like to share one of the products that is great for use individually as well as for the couple. This is a g-spot vibrator that is both slim and smooth. It is angled for g-spot stimulation and has other fun uses as well.
Certain positions will be easier to use this vibe in than others. It can be slid between the couple for some clitoral or labia stimulation during intercourse in the missionary position. (The slim design allows for more comfort than the thicker models and the smooth texture allows it to be easily slid into position with just a bit of lube for extra ease.) In reverse cowgirl, the woman has easy access to stimulating the testicles and perineum. This is also a handy vibe for stimulating the clitoris during cunnilingus.
There is a variety of other ways to enjoy this toy, so let your creativity flow a bit. Always remember to communicate, be safe and have fun.
http://aplaceforpassion.com/product/Harmony_Slim_G_Vibrator_7-inch_-_Black_/0/DJ0915-03
Certain positions will be easier to use this vibe in than others. It can be slid between the couple for some clitoral or labia stimulation during intercourse in the missionary position. (The slim design allows for more comfort than the thicker models and the smooth texture allows it to be easily slid into position with just a bit of lube for extra ease.) In reverse cowgirl, the woman has easy access to stimulating the testicles and perineum. This is also a handy vibe for stimulating the clitoris during cunnilingus.
There is a variety of other ways to enjoy this toy, so let your creativity flow a bit. Always remember to communicate, be safe and have fun.
http://aplaceforpassion.com/product/Harmony_Slim_G_Vibrator_7-inch_-_Black_/0/DJ0915-03
The perfect marriage of vibrations, sensations and unparalleled
pleasure. This new waterproof and multi-speed addition to the Harmony
collection will help you find pure bliss and satisfaction. The long
reach and curved head of the Slim G (7 inches) will reach your g-spot
with ease and comfort. Slim G uses 2 AAA batteries (not included).
Thursday, November 29, 2012
More video info
If you are looking for more information on g-spot stimulation, I have found a page on youtube with several videos.
http://www.youtube.com/user/GSpotSecrets
This video has information about how to find the g-spot as well as a bit of information about preparation before finding the g-spot. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aZ27HkEAiQM&feature=plcp
This video has 4 tips that guys should know. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2WW2AtrQ9VI
This video has information about sex toys for g-spot stimulation. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uh14s1SUG_o&feature=plcp
http://www.youtube.com/user/GSpotSecrets
This video has information about how to find the g-spot as well as a bit of information about preparation before finding the g-spot. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aZ27HkEAiQM&feature=plcp
This video has 4 tips that guys should know. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2WW2AtrQ9VI
This video has information about sex toys for g-spot stimulation. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uh14s1SUG_o&feature=plcp
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