Tantra chair

Through my wanderings I found some information on the tantra chair.  It is an attractive piece of furniture with a variety of uses.  It is great for yoga, aiding in supporting your body, allowing you to stretch into difficult positions with more ease.  It is also a handy tool for sex.  It supports the body and allows you to shift positions with ease.  Many positions that will cause your muscles to tire quickly in bed are made much easier with this chair. 

It is amazing, when your body is supported, how much you can relax and really enjoy the moment.

I found a lovely tantra chair at tantrachair.com.  Since I had no experience with such a piece of furniture, I was hesitant to spend that amount of money ($1299).  After some more research, I was able to find a similar chair on Amazon.  This one has a price that I could wrap my head around.  For less than $350 including the shipping and handling, I was able to purchase one of these chairs for my husband and I to try.  My chair arrived on my front step a few days after my purchase, in a plain cardboard box.  It does require the feet to be attached to the chair, but this was accomplished in a short amount of time and with little effort.  The cheaper model did not have the color options and I am sure is not the same quality as the more expensive model, however it is sturdy, comfortable, attractive and easy to clean.

This chair supports the body, putting less strain on areas such as the back, neck and arms.  I don't know about you, but when I am on top for a length of time, my wrists and elbows will be stiff afterwards.  I have had none of that stiffness with this chair.

It also puts you in a nice position for watching your partner and enables you to be close without the tension it would cause on a bed to sit upward.  No worries about pillows slipping or trying to get them into the right position.  

It is very easy to change position or shift the angle just a bit or a lot, depending on what suits you personally. 
This chair provides the support so those of us that are not gymnasts or body builders can perform well in a wide variety of positions. 

I am glad I purchased this chair and would recommend it, or others styles like it, to others as well.

Open mind

What a wonderful thing an open mind is.  I have encountered a few people lately that were rather close minded about several topics.  In light of these interactions, I have gained a higher appreciation for those with an open mind. 

There is so much out in this grand world that many of us don't get much exposure to.  The open mind will explore the information before making any kind of judgement.  It is so refreshing to deal with others with an open mind.

I know that there is a massive amount of information that I have yet to explore.  I try to keep an open mind and gain knowledge about new topics before I write them off. 

I am thankful that my husband has an open mind about many things.  We have done a lot of growing and exploring over the years and having a willing partner for this exploration has made the ride a lot more enjoyable.

Fabulous read

I have recently found a wonderful little book that I would like to share with you.  It is called "Wyoming Kama Sutra."  It is written in a very lighthearted way, making it easy to read and not likely to be as intimidating for the shy or the beginners.  This book even has illustrations (in stick figure form) for those that prefer a visual guide. 

The authors had a booth at a fair recently and the reactions they got were definitely a sight to see.  While there was an occasional person that was too embarrassed by the topic to explore further, the majority of the people were delighted by this gem.  Much laughter surrounded their booth over the weekend.

Please check out this book at: http://wyomingkamasutra.com/  The website will give you an idea of how the authors approached this topic in this book. 

I think this would make a wonderful gift for weddings, anniversaries, and even for the secret Santa with a bit of a humorous side.  Enjoy!!

Validation/Appreciation

The CEO bringing home millions, to the sanitation engineer, to the stay-at-home mom, raising the next generation with no monetary compensation, every person and every job is equally important.  We all need to know that the things we do are appreciated.  We are programmed with a desire to feel we are doing well, that we are needed and wanted.  So I ask you, are you validating those around you and are you being validated?

Every contribution has a place and makes an impact on those around us.  Some people look down on those in lower positions of status, those making less money or doing the dirty job that others avoid like the plague.  Just remember, if these people were not performing these duties, you would have to.  Take a moment to thank them for all they do.  It may just put a smile on their face or brighten their day.

If you have not been taking a moment to appreciate others contributions, it is never too late to begin. People that feel appreciated for their contributions will be more inclined to continue to contribute.  Those that don't feel appreciated will eventually find other sources for appreciation. 

Book Review

I have spent some time reading a few books and I would like to share my thoughts about one of these books.

"Men Made Easy" by Kara Oh

This book has a lot of information that I feel could be helpful to many women.  Some women may already know the information in the book but I think there are a great many women that will find the information helpful. Some women may have no clue about the information included in this book and if they were to read it and practice what they learn, it could be very beneficial to many aspects of their lives.

The key idea in this book is "feminine grace."  It is something that may have lost some emphasis in our lives now days, but is a wonderful tool to advance not only our partnerships at home but also in our daily lives.

I encourage you to borrow this book from the library, a friend or just go ahead and purchase a copy for yourself.  Go ahead and try the information on for size and maybe even share it with your friends.

It begins with you.  You can't change others but you can change you.  The changes that you make in you will create a ripple effect that impact others around you.  It is incredible to see how these changes happen.

Happy Reading!!

sexual mind

A guys point of view on women's bodies

I just had to share this video with you all.  There is so much emphasis on our physical image and so many of us are so critical about our bodies.  This video really speaks up about this.  It is about a hour long, but worth the watch.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DecyhijQkcw&feature=youtu.be