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I would like to welcome you to this blog and let you know a bit about me. My name is Christina and I am not a therapist or other "expert" on sex and relationships. I am simply a woman who loves life, love, intimacy, romance and sex. I believe that life is all about never-ending learning and exploration. I am a wife and mother who has discovered through her experiences, a crystal clear understanding of what is truly important and maybe more importantly, what is not. I have been married since 1994 and have children ranging from 7 years old to 21 years old. I have found ways to maintain a happy marriage and passionate sex life with my husband, all while raising a family, managing finances and daily stresses and even overcoming more than one life threatening situation. I have often been the "go to" person for friends, who expressed admiration for my relationship with my partner and family and seek the same for their lives. One of my best friends, Bonnie, often collaborates with me on topics. Together we would like to invite you to join us on a journey to find a place for passion in all aspects of life.

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

What kept me away

It has been a while since the last time I was here to post.  I have been working on a project to help my friends and anyone else that I can.  The project is currently being called the "Once a Week Challenge."  I am putting together a bunch of ideas to help spice things up and bring couples back together in their intimacy.  Currently it is a bunch of ideas just thrown together, but I will organize them all so they will be easy to access.  My goal is to have a booklet that can be read through and then each week flip through for specific ideas to help the couples improve their relationship.  It will have tips and techniques, romantic ideas and ideas for spicing things up such as role playing.

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Friday, February 10, 2012

Wonderful Tips!!


When she pulls away, pull her back
When you see her start crying just hold her and don’t say a word
When you see her walking, sneak up and hug her waist from behind
When she’s scared, protect her
When she steals your favorite hoodie, let her wear it
When she grabs at yours hand, hold her’s and play with her fingers
When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and untold
When she looks at you in your eyes, don’t look away until she does
When she’s mad, hug her tight and don’t let go
When she says she’s okay, don’t believe it
Treat her like she’s all that matters to you
Kiss her in the pouring rain
When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is :”whose butt am I kicking baby?”

Ladies, this apply to him as well!

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Valentines Day

Valentines day is just around the corner.  What are you planning for you and your partner?

I know there is tons of emphasis on buying flowers, jewels, chocolates and such, but let's not forget that there are lots of things that we can do for each other that don't cost a lot of money.  How about cooking your partners favorite meal?  Is there a position that your partner has been wanting to try?  How about a massage, whether it leads to something else or is just for the sake of a massage. 

This day is the perfect opportunity to step it up a bit and do a little extra.  I am sure there are very few women out there that would not appreciate their partner taking the role of dishwasher for the night.  I am also pretty sure there would be few men that wouldn't appreciate a little oral gratification.

Turn your imagination loose and see what fun you can come up with.