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I would like to welcome you to this blog and let you know a bit about me. My name is Christina and I am not a therapist or other "expert" on sex and relationships. I am simply a woman who loves life, love, intimacy, romance and sex. I believe that life is all about never-ending learning and exploration. I am a wife and mother who has discovered through her experiences, a crystal clear understanding of what is truly important and maybe more importantly, what is not. I have been married since 1994 and have children ranging from 7 years old to 21 years old. I have found ways to maintain a happy marriage and passionate sex life with my husband, all while raising a family, managing finances and daily stresses and even overcoming more than one life threatening situation. I have often been the "go to" person for friends, who expressed admiration for my relationship with my partner and family and seek the same for their lives. One of my best friends, Bonnie, often collaborates with me on topics. Together we would like to invite you to join us on a journey to find a place for passion in all aspects of life.

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Validation/Appreciation


The CEO bringing home millions, to the sanitation engineer, to the stay-at-home mom, raising the next generation with no monetary compensation, every person and every job is equally important.  We all need to know that the things we do are appreciated.  We are programmed with a desire to feel we are doing well, that we are needed and wanted.  So I ask you, are you validating those around you and are you being validated?

Every contribution has a place and makes an impact on those around us.  Some people look down on those in lower positions of status, those making less money or doing the dirty job that others avoid like the plague.  Just remember, if these people were not performing these duties, you would have to.  Take a moment to thank them for all they do.  It may just put a smile on their face or brighten their day.

If you have not been taking a moment to appreciate others contributions, it is never too late to begin. People that feel appreciated for their contributions will be more inclined to continue to contribute.  Those that don't feel appreciated will eventually find other sources for appreciation.