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I would like to welcome you to this blog and let you know a bit about me. My name is Christina and I am not a therapist or other "expert" on sex and relationships. I am simply a woman who loves life, love, intimacy, romance and sex. I believe that life is all about never-ending learning and exploration. I am a wife and mother who has discovered through her experiences, a crystal clear understanding of what is truly important and maybe more importantly, what is not. I have been married since 1994 and have children ranging from 7 years old to 21 years old. I have found ways to maintain a happy marriage and passionate sex life with my husband, all while raising a family, managing finances and daily stresses and even overcoming more than one life threatening situation. I have often been the "go to" person for friends, who expressed admiration for my relationship with my partner and family and seek the same for their lives. One of my best friends, Bonnie, often collaborates with me on topics. Together we would like to invite you to join us on a journey to find a place for passion in all aspects of life.

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

role play idea: Dr. and nurse or Dr. and patient

Some people are blessed with a vibrant imagination.  They are able to come up with all kinds of new and interesting thoughts and ideas on a whim.  Others love a little assistance in the imagination area.  For those that would like a little primer for their imagination, here are a few possibilities for role play.

One partner will play the doctor and the other the nurse, or assistant of some sort, for this example we will use nurse.  Costumes are handy to amp up the play a bit, but if props are not available, you can improvise.  One example would be a clipboard or a notebook could be a patient's chart.

The nurse could come out to inform the doctor what symptoms the next patient is complaining about.  At this point this could play out with either the doctor or the nurse being the initiator.

If the nurse initiates, the nurse could walk up to the doctor, caress the lapels between their fingers, admiring the chest, while teasing the senses and informing the doctor of the patient's needs.  Maybe the nurses needs are more important than the patient's at this point and the nurse pulls the doctor into another room so the doctor can provide much needed aid.

If the doctor is the initiator, perhaps the doctor will overstep the boundary of what is normally considered  appropriate behavior for a superior.  Suggestive comments, "inappropriate touches" and requirements of extra duties in order to maintain employment could be used in this role play.

You could also use this basic idea except with a doctor and a patient.  Maybe the patient doesn't have any money to pay for services to be rendered, but willing to provide a service of their own to compensate.  This could play out as the suggestion coming from either the patient or from the doctor.

Perhaps the patient is not suffering from any illness or pain at all, just looking to connect with an attractive doctor.

Perhaps the recommended treatment for what is ailing the patient is not a pill, but a much more intimate type of medicine.

Let's not forget that either sex can play the role of the doctor in this scenario.  No need to limit yourself to gender based thinking.  

The possibilities are many, from the vanilla side of things to BDSM.  The choice is yours.  These are just a few ideas that may spark a little idea that can be fanned into flames of passion.

There is a multitude of fun costumes that can be worn for role play.  Here are several nurse costume options http://aplaceforpassion.com/sc/Costumes/Nurse

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